VILNIUS, Lithuania (CNS) -- Meeting young Lithuanians in
Vilnius, Pope Francis said he wanted a relaxed conversation, like they were
sitting in a pub drinking "a beer or a gira," a slightly alcoholic
beverage made from fermented rye bread.
Yet the stories two young adults shared with him Sept. 22
and his responses to their concerns were not casual.
Monika Midveryte spoke about growing up with an alcoholic
father who beat her and eventually committed suicide. A young man, identified
only as Jonas, spoke about being diagnosed with an autoimmune disease and how
serious illness made him and his young wife realize just how serious their
wedding vows were.
Meeting the teens and young adults outside the city's
Cathedral of Sts. Stanislaus and Ladislaus, which has been destroyed and
rebuilt several times, Pope Francis urged the two and all their peers to think
about how God has been close to them, too, even amid tragedy.
Almost always, he said, it is through other people that
God's grace arrives to those in need. "It doesn't drop from the sky. It
doesn't happen by magic, there's no magic wand."
"Don't let the world make you believe that it is better
to do everything on your own," the pope told the young people. "Don't
yield to the temptation of getting caught up in yourself, ending up selfish or
superficial in the face of sorry, difficulty or temporary success."
Pope Francis told the young people, many of whom dream of
emigrating for more opportunities, that their lives are not "a theater
piece or a video game" with a final curtain or a lurking "game
The important thing, he said, is to keep praying and keep
moving forward, "seeking the right way without being afraid to retrace our
steps if we make a mistake. The most dangerous thing is to confuse the path
with a maze that keeps us wandering in circles without ever making real
"Jesus gives us plenty of time, lots of room for
failure," the pope said. But "he never jumps off the ship of our
lives; he is always there at life's crossroads. Even when our lives go up in
flames, he is always there to rebuild them."
Before joining the young people, Pope Francis stopped at the
"Gate of Dawn," one of nine gates that led into the ancient city of
Vilnius. The pope mingled with dozens of orphaned children and the families
that have adopted or fostered them. After praying silently for several minutes
before the oversized icon of Our Lady, Mother of Mercy that marks the gate, the
pope gave a brief talk and then prayed a decade of the rosary with thousands of
people gathered in the street.
Noting how the icon and the gate were the only parts of the
city's fortified walls to remain after an invasion in 1799, Pope Francis said
Mary teaches Christians that "we can defend without attacking, that we can
keep safe without the unhealthy need to distrust others."
"When we close our hearts for fear of others, when we
build walls and barricades," the pope said, "we end up depriving
ourselves of the Good News of Jesus, who shares in the history and the lives of
others" and is present in their suffering.
The wounds of others are the wounds of Jesus, he said. And
"charity is the key that opens to us the door of heaven."
was the first stop on Pope Francis' Sept. 22-25 to Lithuania, Latvia and
Estonia. The three Baltic nations are celebrating the 100th anniversary
of their declarations of independence after World War I. While declared
Soviet republics in 1940, the countries were occupied by the Nazis
during World War II and then lived under Soviet rule from 1944 to 1990.